
"I live in the town I grew up in. I left it many years ago and was much happier but returned as an adult to make my Dad happy then had a kid and got stuck here. Dad is dead and my kid left to study and probably won't return. I'm now 60 with no savings or job and my Mum has dementia. I wish I could die.I literally wish someone would kill me"
The 'town I grew up in' carries a lot of memories, both good and bad. It's okay to feel stuck, but you're not alone in your 'stuck' place.
अभी तक कोई टिप्पणी नहीं है।
आत्म-दंड से नैतिक सुधार तक का नैदानिक आधारित मार्ग। आंतरिक अभियोजक को शांत करना, गलती को आकार देने वाली स्थितियों को समझना और ठोस सुधार के माध्यम से खुद पर फिर से विश्वास बनाना सीखें。
पछतावे के विभिन्न श्रेणियों को समझने से हम उन्हें अधिक प्रभावी ढंग से प्रसंस्कृत कर सकते हैं और दर्दनाक यादें शक्तिशाली सबकों में बदल सकते हैं।
हालांकि अक्सर नकारात्मक माना जाता है, मनोवैज्ञानिक सुझाव देते हैं कि पछतावा व्यक्तिगत विकास के लिए सबसे शक्तिशाली उपकरणों में से एक है।

"To my dearest old friend. I wish I could see your face one more time to apologize for everything I've done, your face still lingers in the cracks of my thoughts, but the more I think about it, the more I forget your face, all I want to do is apologize, I should have listened to you. But I didn't, and that's why I'm here now."
It's painful to think about what could've been, especially when memories start to fade.

"Dopo una vita passata a soccombere a mio padre, mi pento di non avergli detto quanto mi ha fatto male, quando ancora potevo farlo. Lui stava morendo di cancro, e io non riuscivo a fare altro che pensare a quanto non riuscissi a stargli emotivamente vicino, perché offuscata dalla rabbia. Il senso di sacrificio a cui mi ha abituata fin da piccola mi ha fatto essere lì col corpo, e sentire in colpa dopo, come se non fossi stata una buona figlia. Da quando se ne è andato, tutto il dolore è rimasto a me. Che me ne faccio, però?"
Sembra che tu abbia ancora un sacco di sentimenti contrastanti dentro di te, e che non sia facile per te elaborare il dolore e la rabbia.