
"I am young and so I don't know much about love but I feel like I genuinely love this guy and I confessed but he didn't like me back. this acually brought us closer and I think I am in love. nobody else has ever made me feel anything since him it been more than a year and I feel empty without him. I love him so much and it hurts so bad knowing that I can never be with him. but id rather that than never be able to see him again."
It's like even though he didn't feel the same way, being around him still feels more meaningful than being with someone else. Being close to him, even if it's not romantic, seems to be what you're holding onto.
been there... staying friends when u still like them is literal torture, cut ties for ur own sanity
Your feelings are valid and it's okay to feel hurt, but remember that his response doesn't define your worth.
A gentle path away from self-blame toward inner peace. Learn to quiet the harsh inner critic, understand the circumstances of your past mistakes, and slowly rebuild trust in yourself.
Dengan memahami berbagai kategori penyesalan, Anda dapat memprosesnya lebih efektif dan mengubah kenangan menyakitkan menjadi pelajaran berharga.
Meskipun sering dianggap negatif, psikolog menyarankan bahwa penyesalan adalah salah satu alat terkuat untuk pertumbuhan pribadi.

"i wish i didnt follow others and did what i believed, even when nobody believed me yet. now ive to start late to do things that i wanted to bc i couldnt bring myself to finish what others expected me to."
You’re seeing how putting others’ expectations first pushed your own goals back, and that late start feels frustrating.

"Not a regret but I wish my perents aren't divorced when I was three if that haven't happened my life has been a lil nicer. I only needs a lil perential comfort. neither my perents wants me I grew up with my grand perents and my maternal uncle He's always criticizes me to compare like he wants to do things that can't I wanna die atp but I'm holding back js for my grand perents i wish lifes been lil better to me."
It sounds like the divorce and the criticism you faced left you longing for a steady, comforting presence. Holding on for your grandparents shows how much you still care, even when everything feels overwhelming.