
"后悔跟风去搞那个理财项目。本金都取不出来,那是给孩子存的学费啊。老婆还要跟我离婚。"
Greed and fear are ancient drivers; forgiveness, especially of oneself, is the hardest currency to mine.
现在这环境,保本最重要。别太自责了,大家都难。
A gentle path away from self-blame toward inner peace. Learn to quiet the harsh inner critic, understand the circumstances of your past mistakes, and slowly rebuild trust in yourself.
了解不同类型的遗憾可以帮助我们更有效地处理它们,并将痛苦的记忆转化为宝贵的教训。
遗憾常被视为负面情绪,但心理学家认为它可能是我们个人成长最有力的工具之一

"Not a regret but I wish my perents aren't divorced when I was three if that haven't happened my life has been a lil nicer. I only needs a lil perential comfort. neither my perents wants me I grew up with my grand perents and my maternal uncle He's always criticizes me to compare like he wants to do things that can't I wanna die atp but I'm holding back js for my grand perents i wish lifes been lil better to me."
It sounds like the divorce and the criticism you faced left you longing for a steady, comforting presence. Holding on for your grandparents shows how much you still care, even when everything feels overwhelming.

"I am young and so I don't know much about love but I feel like I genuinely love this guy and I confessed but he didn't like me back. this acually brought us closer and I think I am in love. nobody else has ever made me feel anything since him it been more than a year and I feel empty without him. I love him so much and it hurts so bad knowing that I can never be with him. but id rather that than never be able to see him again."
It's like even though he didn't feel the same way, being around him still feels more meaningful than being with someone else. Being close to him, even if it's not romantic, seems to be what you're holding onto.