
"Hätte ich bloß nicht geraucht. Der Arzt sagt, meine Lunge sieht schlecht aus. Ich habe Angst."
Fear is a signal to care for what remains; every breath from now on is a gift to cherish.
Chưa có bình luận nào.
Một con đường dựa trên lâm sàng từ việc tự trừng phạt đến phục hồi đạo đức. Học cách làm im lặng công tố viên nội tâm, hiểu các điều kiện đã hình thành nên sai lầm và xây dựng lại niềm tin vào bản thân thông qua việc sửa chữa cụ thể.
Hiểu các loại hối tiếc khác nhau có thể giúp chúng ta xử lý chúng hiệu quả hơn và biến những ký ức đau buồn thành những bài học mạnh mẽ.
Nỗi hối tiếc thường được xem là một cảm xúc tiêu cực, nhưng các nhà tâm lý học gợi ý rằng nó có thể là công cụ mạnh mẽ nhất để phát triển cá nhân.

"I wish I just went for it instead of choosing to do another thing. I felt like what happened was such a wasted opportunity. I initially wanted to be a part of a specific org, and I had a specific position in mind for it. When it was election day, I was elected for a position I had the year before but I rejected it because I wanted a different position. Turns out, the position I wanted was removed and it was somehow given to the position I rejected, I REGRET NOT STANDING UP AT THE TIME BECAUSE THAT WAS ALL I HAD TO DO. I should've just taken it instead of taking a blind turn. I am now haunted by my stupidity and it keeps going to my mind and I can't stop thinking about it no matter how much I try to. It bothers me so much, because there is now a lot of opportunity I am not going to get because I wasn't able to get what I wanted. And I never wanted to be in this position. I only wanted to get the other thing but now I can't because my friend is the elected officer for that position and I cant change this anymore not unless some miracle happens"
It sounds like a tough lesson you learned the hard way. The regret is a reminder of the choices we make.

".was loving you a sin?hey...i know i hurt you by that sudden break up..i know and im sorry.i saw you cry,i saw you loosing yourself..im sorry.but what could i have done?my family found out about us, they took control over my socials.and they made me break up.they were at school too....how was i supposed to tell you?how could i tell you i was forced?is loving someone from other religion a taboo?why....and worst of all i had to watch you fall apart because of me.im sorry .i hope you will find someone who will be with you.a girl who can be with you my dear! im sorry ...."
Parece que te sientes culpable por amar a alguien a pesar de las circunstancias. Es comprensible sentirte así.