
"keşke daha önce silseymişim"
The past is a finished book; do not write today on old pages.
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Pişmanlık sadece bir yük müdür, yoksa zeka için biyolojik bir zorunluluk mudur? Beynimizin "tahmin hatalarını" kullanarak nasıl bilgelik inşa ettiğini ve Yunus Emre’nin "kendini bilme" yolculuğuyla nasıl örtüştüğünü keşfedin.
Pişmanlık genellikle olumsuz bir duygu olarak görülür, ancak psikologlar bunun kişisel gelişim için en güçlü aracımız olabileceğini öne sürüyor.

"i wish i didnt follow others and did what i believed, even when nobody believed me yet. now ive to start late to do things that i wanted to bc i couldnt bring myself to finish what others expected me to."
You’re seeing how putting others’ expectations first pushed your own goals back, and that late start feels frustrating.

"I need to yell and scream at someone all of my frustrations out loud, but I'm just stuck inside a box with no opening. I act like I tell my parents everything, but I tell them the smaller things, like, someone's annoying me, and stuff like that. I need someone to talk to that won't judge, like a robot. But my mom just finds a way to turn it around on my medicine. "She needs to go up a dose." "Oh, it's because you didn't take your medicine." "See? Your medicine helps you so much!" It's exhausting."
It sounds like being trapped inside that box makes the frustration pile up, and the way your mom reacts just adds to the noise. Having a place where you can just say what's on your mind without it being turned back on you would be a relief.