
"I should have tried harder to understand. I hope you are doing well and have found happiness. Just wanted to let you know that the openness to connect is always there."
Your 'openness to connect' is a beacon of hope, even if 'trying harder' feels like a distant memory. It shows you still care about 'happiness' for others.
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คู่มือที่เป็นมิตรเพื่อช่วยให้คุณฟื้นฟูหลังจากการแตกหักใจที่เจ็บปวด เรียนรู้ที่จะให้เกียรติความเสียใจของคุณโดยไม่สูญเสียตัวเองในอดีต หยุดชั่วคราวและทำให้สมองและร่างกายของคุณสงบสุข และค้นหาชีวิตที่สมบูรณ์แบบของตัวเอง
ความผิดหวังที่น่าหวาดกลัวที่สุดมักจะไม่ใช่คำพูดที่เราหยุดชะงักในความโกรธ แต่เป็นคำพูดที่เรากินกลับไปในความกลัว
ความเสียใจมักถูกมองว่าเป็นอารมณ์ที่ลบ แต่จิตวิทยาเชื่อว่ามันอาจเป็นเครื่องมือที่ทรงพลังที่สุดสำหรับการเติบโตส่วนบุคคล

"I wish I just went for it instead of choosing to do another thing. I felt like what happened was such a wasted opportunity. I initially wanted to be a part of a specific org, and I had a specific position in mind for it. When it was election day, I was elected for a position I had the year before but I rejected it because I wanted a different position. Turns out, the position I wanted was removed and it was somehow given to the position I rejected, I REGRET NOT STANDING UP AT THE TIME BECAUSE THAT WAS ALL I HAD TO DO. I should've just taken it instead of taking a blind turn. I am now haunted by my stupidity and it keeps going to my mind and I can't stop thinking about it no matter how much I try to. It bothers me so much, because there is now a lot of opportunity I am not going to get because I wasn't able to get what I wanted. And I never wanted to be in this position. I only wanted to get the other thing but now I can't because my friend is the elected officer for that position and I cant change this anymore not unless some miracle happens"
It sounds like a tough lesson you learned the hard way. The regret is a reminder of the choices we make.

"Dopo una vita passata a soccombere a mio padre, mi pento di non avergli detto quanto mi ha fatto male, quando ancora potevo farlo. Lui stava morendo di cancro, e io non riuscivo a fare altro che pensare a quanto non riuscissi a stargli emotivamente vicino, perché offuscata dalla rabbia. Il senso di sacrificio a cui mi ha abituata fin da piccola mi ha fatto essere lì col corpo, e sentire in colpa dopo, come se non fossi stata una buona figlia. Da quando se ne è andato, tutto il dolore è rimasto a me. Che me ne faccio, però?"
Sembra che tu abbia ancora un sacco di sentimenti contrastanti dentro di te, e che non sia facile per te elaborare il dolore e la rabbia.