THE WALL
Lees anonieme spijtbetuigingen van over de hele wereld. Zonder oordeel, alleen gedeelde menselijkheid.
Redactionele Noot:
De Architectuur van Spijt
Spijt is niet alleen een geest uit het verleden; het is de architect van onze toekomstige wijsheid. Elk 'had ik maar' is een blauwdruk voor een beter 'ik zal'.
Not a regret but I wish my perents aren't divorced when I was three if that haven't happened my life has been a lil nicer. I only needs a lil perential comfort. neither my perents wants me I grew up with my grand perents and my maternal uncle He's always criticizes me to compare like he wants to do things that can't I wanna die atp but I'm holding back js for my grand perents i wish lifes been lil better to me.
“It sounds like the divorce and the criticism you faced left you longing for a steady, comforting presence. Holding on for your grandparents shows how much you still care, even when everything feels overwhelming.”
我想说的有点多 高一高二我没认真学习 我喜欢我的一个学弟朋友 我们都是男生 他把我当朋友 我把他当情人 我还意淫过他 我有时候和我的朋友起矛盾 今天我顶撞了班主任 我骗了家人 我没有好好学习
“Losing your connection or faith in life is a deeply isolating experience.”
i wish i didnt follow others and did what i believed, even when nobody believed me yet. now ive to start late to do things that i wanted to bc i couldnt bring myself to finish what others expected me to.
“You’re seeing how putting others’ expectations first pushed your own goals back, and that late start feels frustrating.”
AI-metgezel
Praat met een eenvoudige AI-metgezel die naar je spijt luistert en je helpt om ze objectief in te kaderen.
Me and munnu are in relationship, within few days it's gonna be an year.But there are some odds going on between us . I've realized a lot and he seems to not like my behavior and I didn't knew him completely earlier,I recently got to know his interests i feel bad that i didn't knew him earlier and he wasn't the person i thought,I don't know if he still loves me.The moment i got to know him exactly I've accepted him(he's not a bad person)and I didn't even dare to ask or fight w him about this . I feel like I'm left alone. I want him back
“It sounds like you’re feeling the loss of not having known him earlier and now wondering if his feelings are still there. Being left with that quiet uncertainty can feel very lonely.”
"I can't survive this distance between us , my heart feels heavy . I've been thinking about you since we had the last convo . Munnu come back to me."
“It sounds like the distance between you feels like a heavy presence you keep carrying. Thinking about that last conversation keeps that feeling close.”
I need to yell and scream at someone all of my frustrations out loud, but I'm just stuck inside a box with no opening. I act like I tell my parents everything, but I tell them the smaller things, like, someone's annoying me, and stuff like that. I need someone to talk to that won't judge, like a robot. But my mom just finds a way to turn it around on my medicine. "She needs to go up a dose." "Oh, it's because you didn't take your medicine." "See? Your medicine helps you so much!" It's exhausting.
“It sounds like being trapped inside that box makes the frustration pile up, and the way your mom reacts just adds to the noise. Having a place where you can just say what's on your mind without it being turned back on you would be a relief.”
I regret putting my all constantly knowing i won’t receive nothing back
“It can be really draining to keep giving when you feel like you're not getting anything in return.”
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“Some things are best left in the quiet.”
I am young and so I don't know much about love but I feel like I genuinely love this guy and I confessed but he didn't like me back. this acually brought us closer and I think I am in love. nobody else has ever made me feel anything since him it been more than a year and I feel empty without him. I love him so much and it hurts so bad knowing that I can never be with him. but id rather that than never be able to see him again.
“It's like even though he didn't feel the same way, being around him still feels more meaningful than being with someone else. Being close to him, even if it's not romantic, seems to be what you're holding onto.”
AI-metgezel
Praat met een eenvoudige AI-metgezel die naar je spijt luistert en je helpt om ze objectief in te kaderen.
I regret not getting a bigger roster
“It can be frustrating to feel like you've limited your team's potential.”
I just wish my mom would yell at my dad and say something like "why don't you treat her like the amazing kid she is" and not just let him do whatever he wants and say whatever he wants. For once I wish my mom would stand up with me and not be Forced to take his side
“It's really tough when you feel like someone should be sticking up for you, especially when it's a parent.”