
"后悔当初没听爸妈的话考公务员。现在在这个互联网大厂,996要把身体搞垮了,还没有户口。"
Health is a quiet foundation until it cracks; listen to your body before it screams.
同感。在大城市太难了,我也想回家了。
A gentle path away from self-blame toward inner peace. Learn to quiet the harsh inner critic, understand the circumstances of your past mistakes, and slowly rebuild trust in yourself.
다양한 후회 유형을 이해하면 더 효과적으로 처리하고 아픈 기억을 강력한 교훈으로 바꿀 수 있습니다.
후회는 일반적으로 부정적인 감정으로 여겨지지만, 심리학자들은 그것이 개인 성장과 발전에 있어 가장 강력한 도구 중 하나가 될 수 있음을 제시합니다.

"我想说的有点多 高一高二我没认真学习 我喜欢我的一个学弟朋友 我们都是男生 他把我当朋友 我把他当情人 我还意淫过他 我有时候和我的朋友起矛盾 今天我顶撞了班主任 我骗了家人 我没有好好学习"
Losing your connection or faith in life is a deeply isolating experience.

"i wish i didnt follow others and did what i believed, even when nobody believed me yet. now ive to start late to do things that i wanted to bc i couldnt bring myself to finish what others expected me to."
You’re seeing how putting others’ expectations first pushed your own goals back, and that late start feels frustrating.

"Not a regret but I wish my perents aren't divorced when I was three if that haven't happened my life has been a lil nicer. I only needs a lil perential comfort. neither my perents wants me I grew up with my grand perents and my maternal uncle He's always criticizes me to compare like he wants to do things that can't I wanna die atp but I'm holding back js for my grand perents i wish lifes been lil better to me."
It sounds like the divorce and the criticism you faced left you longing for a steady, comforting presence. Holding on for your grandparents shows how much you still care, even when everything feels overwhelming.