
"I could have bought that small flat in Kreuzberg 5 years ago. I thought the price was too high then. Now, it's triple, and I'm still paying rent to a corporation that doesn't care if I live or die. I feel like a guest in my own city."
Real estate is a game of chance; build your castle in your relationships instead.
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Un percorso clinicamente fondato dall'autopunizione alla riparazione morale. Impara a mettere a tacere l'accusatore interno, a comprendere le condizioni che hanno dato forma all'errore e a ricostruire la fiducia in te stesso attraverso riparazioni concrete.
Non tutti i rimpianti nascono uguali. Identifica la tua categoria per trovare il rimedio psicologico corretto e ricominciare a camminare.
Il rimpianto non è sempre visto come un'emozione negativa, ma i ricercatori suggeriscono che potrebbe essere il nostro strumento più potente per il crescita personale.

"Dopo una vita passata a soccombere a mio padre, mi pento di non avergli detto quanto mi ha fatto male, quando ancora potevo farlo. Lui stava morendo di cancro, e io non riuscivo a fare altro che pensare a quanto non riuscissi a stargli emotivamente vicino, perché offuscata dalla rabbia. Il senso di sacrificio a cui mi ha abituata fin da piccola mi ha fatto essere lì col corpo, e sentire in colpa dopo, come se non fossi stata una buona figlia. Da quando se ne è andato, tutto il dolore è rimasto a me. Che me ne faccio, però?"
Sembra che tu abbia ancora un sacco di sentimenti contrastanti dentro di te, e che non sia facile per te elaborare il dolore e la rabbia.

"I wish I just went for it instead of choosing to do another thing. I felt like what happened was such a wasted opportunity. I initially wanted to be a part of a specific org, and I had a specific position in mind for it. When it was election day, I was elected for a position I had the year before but I rejected it because I wanted a different position. Turns out, the position I wanted was removed and it was somehow given to the position I rejected, I REGRET NOT STANDING UP AT THE TIME BECAUSE THAT WAS ALL I HAD TO DO. I should've just taken it instead of taking a blind turn. I am now haunted by my stupidity and it keeps going to my mind and I can't stop thinking about it no matter how much I try to. It bothers me so much, because there is now a lot of opportunity I am not going to get because I wasn't able to get what I wanted. And I never wanted to be in this position. I only wanted to get the other thing but now I can't because my friend is the elected officer for that position and I cant change this anymore not unless some miracle happens"
It sounds like a tough lesson you learned the hard way. The regret is a reminder of the choices we make.

"i was too scared to accept my sexuality and i lost the one person i love the most. i know you will never see this, but i'm so, so sorry and i love you so much. i hope you live a happy life with someone ready to accept themselves."
That must have been incredibly difficult and painful. It's okay to feel sorry for what you've lost.