
Nakaraan
"Babam istedi diye mühendis oldum. Gerçek tutkum olan yazarlığı erteleyip 10 yılımı sevmediğim bir ofiste çürüttüm."
Paglago
35 yaşımda istifa ettim. Geceleri yazarak başladığım bu yolda ilk kitabımı çıkardım. Kendi yolunu seçmek için hiçbir zaman geç değil.
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Ang pagsisisi ba ay isa lamang pasanin, o ito ay isang biyolohikal na pangangailangan para sa katalinuhan? Alamin kung paano ginagamit ng ating utak ang "mga error sa hula" para bumuo ng karunungan.
Ang pagsisisi ay madalas na tinitingnan bilang isang negatibong emosyon, ngunit iminumungkahi ng mga sikolohista na ito ay maaaring ang ating pinakamakapangyarihang tool para sa personal na paglago.

"Not a regret but I wish my perents aren't divorced when I was three if that haven't happened my life has been a lil nicer. I only needs a lil perential comfort. neither my perents wants me I grew up with my grand perents and my maternal uncle He's always criticizes me to compare like he wants to do things that can't I wanna die atp but I'm holding back js for my grand perents i wish lifes been lil better to me."
It sounds like the divorce and the criticism you faced left you longing for a steady, comforting presence. Holding on for your grandparents shows how much you still care, even when everything feels overwhelming.

"I am young and so I don't know much about love but I feel like I genuinely love this guy and I confessed but he didn't like me back. this acually brought us closer and I think I am in love. nobody else has ever made me feel anything since him it been more than a year and I feel empty without him. I love him so much and it hurts so bad knowing that I can never be with him. but id rather that than never be able to see him again."
It's like even though he didn't feel the same way, being around him still feels more meaningful than being with someone else. Being close to him, even if it's not romantic, seems to be what you're holding onto.

"Me and munnu are in relationship, within few days it's gonna be an year.But there are some odds going on between us . I've realized a lot and he seems to not like my behavior and I didn't knew him completely earlier,I recently got to know his interests i feel bad that i didn't knew him earlier and he wasn't the person i thought,I don't know if he still loves me.The moment i got to know him exactly I've accepted him(he's not a bad person)and I didn't even dare to ask or fight w him about this . I feel like I'm left alone. I want him back"
It sounds like you’re feeling the loss of not having known him earlier and now wondering if his feelings are still there. Being left with that quiet uncertainty can feel very lonely.