
"Dopo una vita passata a soccombere a mio padre, mi pento di non avergli detto quanto mi ha fatto male, quando ancora potevo farlo. Lui stava morendo di cancro, e io non riuscivo a fare altro che pensare a quanto non riuscissi a stargli emotivamente vicino, perché offuscata dalla rabbia. Il senso di sacrificio a cui mi ha abituata fin da piccola mi ha fatto essere lì col corpo, e sentire in colpa dopo, come se non fossi stata una buona figlia. Da quando se ne è andato, tutto il dolore è rimasto a me. Che me ne faccio, però?"
Sembra che tu abbia ancora un sacco di sentimenti contrastanti dentro di te, e che non sia facile per te elaborare il dolore e la rabbia.
Life is a complex tapestry of moments, and sometimes we must accept that our actions, though imperfect, were guided by the best intentions we had at the time.
Uważnie prowadzony przewodnik do życia z żalem, klarownością i pracą granicową w alienacji rodzinnej. Naucz się oceniać wzorce uszkodzeń, zatrzymać negocjowanie przeciwko własnej bezpieczeństwu, a budować pokój nawet jeśli nie ma zjednoczenia.
Najbardziej dręczącym żalem często nie są słowa wypowiedziane w gniewie, lecz te, które ze strachu postanowiliśmy przemilczeć.
Żal jest często postrzegany jako negatywna emocja, ale psychologowie sugerują, że może być naszym najpotężniejszym narzędziem rozwoju osobistego.

"I just killed an insect that scared me, I'm sorry"
It can be really unsettling when something startles us, even if it's just a small insect.

"I wish i never touched that song at all"
It's like the song is now tied to a memory you wish you didn't make.

"I just wish my mom would yell at my dad and say something like "why don't you treat her like the amazing kid she is" and not just let him do whatever he wants and say whatever he wants. For once I wish my mom would stand up with me and not be Forced to take his side"
It's really tough when you feel like someone should be sticking up for you, especially when it's a parent.