
"I used to talk this guy on social media ,turned us into situationship...having sexualconvo but then after few days my friend call me and told me that I'm talking to his bf ( obv. Idk anything about their relationship ) I wanted to talk to someone because just one month back my bf cheated on me with my high-school friend and then I met this guy ,but when I get to know about him ....I asked him to broke up but he was a psycho and he begged me not to leave him and i got manipulated because I started falling for him , days passed and it was my "first time " he knew since day 01 that I never do it . So forced me and I said no but he didn't stop and then after we had physical rlsp he left me after a week .....there was a twist - he used to say that we both studied together in 5 grade . I mean wowww . Now I never ever wanted to see his face"
'First time' and 'cheated' seem to echo your deepest fears and the rawest pain. It’s okay to feel the weight of 'never ever wanting to see his face'.
Wala pang mga komento.
Isang gabay na nakabase sa sikolohiya para sa pagdaan sa sugat ng attachment at muling pagbuo ng panloob na integridad. Alamin kung paano magluksa nang hindi ginagawang romantiko ang sugat, patahimikin ang iyong nervous system, at bawiin ang sarili na mas malaki kaysa sa relasyon.
Ang pinaka-nag-uunahang mga pagsisisi ay madalas na hindi ang mga salitang isinigaw natin sa galit, kundi ang mga salitang nilunok natin sa takot.
Ang pagsisisi ay madalas na tinitingnan bilang isang negatibong emosyon, ngunit iminumungkahi ng mga sikolohista na ito ay maaaring ang ating pinakamakapangyarihang tool para sa personal na paglago.

"wish u was back alive homie rest easy my nga 🕊️🕊️ fly high daquan"
It's clear you're still thinking about him and missing him a lot.

"bir tane kedi var ama boyle dunyanin en cringe insani arada gelip anyonghaseyo falan diyo bogasim geliyor"
Bu durumdan sikayetci olmanin nedenlerini dusunmek biraz daha kolaylasabilir

"To my dearest old friend. I wish I could see your face one more time to apologize for everything I've done, your face still lingers in the cracks of my thoughts, but the more I think about it, the more I forget your face, all I want to do is apologize, I should have listened to you. But I didn't, and that's why I'm here now."
It's painful to think about what could've been, especially when memories start to fade.