
"keşke daha önce silseymişim"
The past is a finished book; do not write today on old pages.
Wala pang mga komento.
Isang malalim na balangkas para sa pagproseso ng propesyonal na pagsisisi nang hindi nahuhulog sa kahihiyan. Alamin kung paano suriin ang landas na hindi tinahak, ilabas ang nakatagong talino sa iyong tunay na karera, at gawin ang pagkabigo na isang malay-taong pagbabago ng direksyon.
Ang pagsisisi ba ay isa lamang pasanin, o ito ay isang biyolohikal na pangangailangan para sa katalinuhan? Alamin kung paano ginagamit ng ating utak ang "mga error sa hula" para bumuo ng karunungan.
Ang pagsisisi ay madalas na tinitingnan bilang isang negatibong emosyon, ngunit iminumungkahi ng mga sikolohista na ito ay maaaring ang ating pinakamakapangyarihang tool para sa personal na paglago.

"Keşke daha önce anne olsaydım"
Bazen en čok özlediğiniz şey, önceden olamadığınız bir şey olabilir.

"I wish I just went for it instead of choosing to do another thing. I felt like what happened was such a wasted opportunity. I initially wanted to be a part of a specific org, and I had a specific position in mind for it. When it was election day, I was elected for a position I had the year before but I rejected it because I wanted a different position. Turns out, the position I wanted was removed and it was somehow given to the position I rejected, I REGRET NOT STANDING UP AT THE TIME BECAUSE THAT WAS ALL I HAD TO DO. I should've just taken it instead of taking a blind turn. I am now haunted by my stupidity and it keeps going to my mind and I can't stop thinking about it no matter how much I try to. It bothers me so much, because there is now a lot of opportunity I am not going to get because I wasn't able to get what I wanted. And I never wanted to be in this position. I only wanted to get the other thing but now I can't because my friend is the elected officer for that position and I cant change this anymore not unless some miracle happens"
It sounds like a tough lesson you learned the hard way. The regret is a reminder of the choices we make.

"i was too scared to accept my sexuality and i lost the one person i love the most. i know you will never see this, but i'm so, so sorry and i love you so much. i hope you live a happy life with someone ready to accept themselves."
That must have been incredibly difficult and painful. It's okay to feel sorry for what you've lost.